Why shouldn't anybody despise men?

Although your point can be seen from a agreeable perspective, believe it or not, not all men are complete failures. There are some men in this world that make a point to strive from the rest to accomplish many goals in this world. For example, many guys enjoy the typical "im gonna treat a girl like ****" attitude... but the fact of the matter is, not ALL guys are like that. Some men work hard to stand tall and apart from others. Whether being a loving, supportive friend or lover, or a strong willed veteran to their country. The fact of the matter is, just because most guys give you a reason to give up, dont throw in the towel just yet. You just need to find the right guy in your life. He's out there. I promise you that. Just give it some time, and have faith. 5% of us do care very very much, and work hard to be different from the rest :)